For example, when writing to a female in the letter I put "Dear (first name)" but if it's a male I'll write "Dear Mr.(last name)" just because I'm a young girl & I don't want people to think I'm going to try and stalk them.
I also end the letter to a female using "Hugs & Best Wishes" but if it's a male I'll just put "Best Wishes" unless the female celebrity is much older than I am.
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